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Weggever



Dear woman, do you recognize this?

You feel a constant inner pressure to be PERFECT, get it right and move faster.

You can’t just do things for the fun of it. Everything needs to be ‘productive’. 

A lazy afternoon on the couch? Nope, feelings of guilt set in in no time. 

There’s a whole to do list to get to first, remember?

On top of that everyone else’s needs seem to be way more important than your own, so by the time you get to what you really want to be doing……right, you already feel too exhausted and ready to sleep. 

Generally you miss excitement, adventure and playfulness in your life. 

It can be challenging for you to be yourself around others and relax. Only a select few get to see your true colors. 

Often times you don’t feel comfortable in your own skin. You’re out of touch with your body and your sensuality. Self-criticism is no stranger to you. 

Yet deep inside, there is a SPARK of aliveness that wants to come out and play. 

A spark of juicy-ness. 

A spark of crazy and ‘I’ve had enough and I’m going to let my hair hang down now thank you very much’. 

It’s undeniable. It’s unstoppable. 

And it’s bound to come out at some point. Why not let that time be now? 

I invite you to get acquainted with your inner SLUT. 

About the Slut Archetype

The archetypal energy of the Slut in a woman stands for her ability to enjoy to the fullest.
The Slut loves to drink in all the good life has to offer, not only the fully embodied experience of her sexuality but ANYTHING that pleases the senses and gives her pleasure: soul moving music, delicious food, exquisite touch, the sight of nature’s or people’s beauty.
 
The Slut is the SHAMELESS woman. The FREE woman. The empowered woman.
 
The Slut dances, sings, laughs, expresses, moves, has hot steamy s*x on the back seat of a car,…. without guilt or inhibition.
 
She feels JUICY and TURNED ON by life from the inside out.
Her attractiveness is therefore not dependent on the way she looks. Her PLEASURE is her REAL BEAUTY, and she loves to be seen and felt in it.
 
When a woman embodies EROS in this way, the skies open. She becomes irresistible and shines brighter than a thousand suns on the horizon.

What seems to be the challenge?

A lot of women find it super challenging to embody the archetype of the Slut in their lives and sadly miss out on her nourishing energy. 

They: 

Tell me something love,
are you a 'good girl' or a 'bad girl'?

Most women find themselves on the side of the ‘good girl’, in what is known as 

the good girl – bad girl polarity.

Good girls are: 
 
restraint, proper,
sweet, serious,
respectable, professional,
reliable, responsable,
co-dependent, compliant,
perfect, pleasing,
self-sacrificing, repressed,
and not very sexual.
 
The good girl is excellent at the role of the ‘ideal woman’, the ‘mother’ or the ‘ideal wife’.
Think of the Saint, the Prude and the Princess as archetypal examples of the good girl.

When you primarily live out the good girl in your life, you live behind a mask of perfectionisme and people-pleasing. It either doesn’t feel safe to allow your pure life force (EROS) to come out and be free, or, you don’t feel deserving of enjoyment due to a lack of self-esteem and you self-deprive.

Being caught of from your body, pleasure and true needs, life loses its glow. You don’t feel sexy and beautiful anymore. Your sex drive decreases. You’re stuck in control and feel restless inside. You might even become bitter or get depressed.

Inside of each good girl, there is a bad girl too!

The bad girl’s characteristics are:

passionate, playful, adventurous

sassy, naughty, flirtatious,

intens, wild

self-centered, indulgent

independent, free

expressed, loud

defiant, precocious,

claiming of her desires,

(overly) sexual

Think of the mistress, the femme fatale, the whore, the stripper.

When you primarily live out the bad girl in your life, you hide your true self behind a facade of independance and not needing anyone.

The bad girl avoids feeling her vulnerability by over-sexualizing herself. She gives herself and her body away to get what she wants. Her Eros becomes an empty exchange for love and attention, or serves to uphold her image of being a desirable woman. Deep inside she feels lonely, empty, unfulfilled and resentful.

The Good girl & the bad girl come together in the Authentic Slut.

als het stoute meisje voorop staat verberg je je ware zelf achter een masker van kijk eens hoe stoer en onafhankelijk ik ben. 

The bad girl avoids ‘feeling’ and being vulnerable by over-sexualizing herself and telling herself she doesn’t need anyone or anything but herself and her pleasure. (Look how independent I am. Look how well I’m doing without you). 

resultaten op gebied van leven en seksualiteit. grenzeloos, harde gevoelloze seksualiteit. 

Voor beiden is écht contact moeilijk. contact met zz, eros en anderen.

Both the good and the bad girl are in danger of loosing touch with their heart, innocence, softness, vulnerability and true BOUNDARIES & needs. The good girl hides her true self behind a mask of perfectionism & people-pleasing, in order not to have to feel and be accepted by others.